So my younger brother....?

I accidentally spilled water on the carpet, so I told my younger brother to rush and wipe it off, more water was comin from the bottle....he said "HOW LAZY CAN YOU GET?" I said "lazy??, you mean sick, right?" ...(I had asthma attack and I also had menstrual cramps. My cramps are so bad that I usually cant move. Well, he didnt know about the cramps, but he knew at asthma attack pretty well. ) And when I told him about cramps, he was like "well. I did not know about cramps... " I was like "well, you knew abt asthma attack" and he was like "Okay Miss Softie" I was like "wht??/ you called me lazy when I have an asthma attack, and you were NOT even joking" and he was like "yea, I was not jokin, but you shld roughen up, dont be such a girl" I said "wht are you talkin abt" He said "why do you overreact??" I was like "you accused me of..." He started fuming and didnt let me finish, said "sorry" rudely and left the place ... do you get annoyed when ppl think u're lazy when they know u're sick